tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26430351.post116620610809006733..comments2023-10-31T07:23:10.971-04:00Comments on dame: The Best, Cutest, Quietest Version of Yourselfthe damehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12198483122054652116noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26430351.post-1166710081331362722006-12-21T09:08:00.000-05:002006-12-21T09:08:00.000-05:00Well, certainly I think anyone would agree wth you...Well, certainly I think anyone would agree wth you. But I think it is a more complex thing to put into practice than it is to understand and agree with. I absolutely take responsibility for everything I am (read the blog) and the mistakes I have made. But the ability to be in a relationship without losing one's self in any way is something a lot of women struggle with. <BR/><BR/>Kudos to you that you find it so simple.the damehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12198483122054652116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26430351.post-1166677184568035372006-12-20T23:59:00.000-05:002006-12-20T23:59:00.000-05:00Always be yourself!!! I have been myself most of ...Always be yourself!!! I have been myself most of my life and definately in my most recent relationship...this is me, this is who I am and I'm not likely to change, especially after spending most of my time single and living alone. It's also worked well for me in my jobs, people either love me or they hate me, but I'm not working to make friends, I work for money and lots of it...money gets me the things in life that I need, want and what makes me happy, that way, I do not need to rely on a man to provide these things for me. I can find one on the sheer fact of enjoying his company. Someone to compliment me, not someone to "do" for me. And if he's not making my life better or happier or completing the other half of me, then I can get rid of him without fear of not being able to provide for myself or without fear that I will not know who I am without him in my life. I won't change for him, I don't expect him to change for me, I just want him to be. Be who he is and I'll be who I am. Most men aren't evil, we just sometimes give them too much power over ourselves. Take control and responsiblity for everything that you are and who you are and you will have no one to blame in life but yourself. It's rather empowering.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com